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Wong asks about proving marriage relationships for surviving spouses

New York City Council · Jun 22, 2026 · starts 0:58:34 · 1 min 4 sec

Wong asks about proving marriage relationships for surviving spouses when paperwork may not exist. Noah confirms this is a challenge and that cases are very individualistic depending on factors like length of cohabitation and age. Nicole notes DVS is not aware of any surviving spouses denied benefits.

Phil Wong

But are they eligible for the same benefits as other surviving spouses?

Noah Bray

Typically, yes.

Noah Bray

But very nuanced.

Noah Bray

Everything's individualistic depending on sometimes as much as age of the veteran or when they died, things like that.

Noah Bray

But typically, yes.

Nicole

And if I could just jump in right now, our agency is currently not aware of any surviving spouses that were denied benefits.

Phil Wong

Okay.

Phil Wong

Thank you.

Phil Wong

You do need to provide marriage type of relationships to prove that you're a surviving spouse.

Phil Wong

Because a lot of these relationships, they may not even be paperwork that may back this up.

Noah Bray

That's correct.

Noah Bray

And that's what goes back into the factors of like on the individual case, because there's so many things that are involved with like the length of time they live together or the age of, let's say, if you're looking for education benefits for the children alive, it's very case specific.

Phil Wong

Okay.

Yesenia Mata

Okay, thank you, Joe.