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Cabán and Davidoff discuss what connectedness means for trans youth

New York City Council · Sep 23, 2026 · starts 0:44:05 · 57 sec

Cabán asks Davidoff to flesh out the idea of connectedness. Davidoff says it means being seen and affirmed in gender identity and pronouns, and that affirmation and support are central to connectedness.

Tiffany L. Cabán

Can you go into, can you flesh out those, that sort of definition of connectedness for folks?

Marnie Davidoff

Yeah, I mean, I think that the definition of connectedness is tied into the idea of affirmation and support.

Marnie Davidoff

So it's being seen for who you are, the gender identity that you are choosing to present as, the pronouns you're choosing to use, that those are all affirmed and supported.

Marnie Davidoff

And that's a critical part, I think, of that connectedness factor.

Tiffany L. Cabán

Yeah, I mean, obviously there's a large scope of what parental responsibility looks like and how.

Tiffany L. Cabán

children, even when we're adults, because we still carry that.

Tiffany L. Cabán

parent relationship trauma around like, you know, differences between being fed and housed and being emotionally supported and seen and understood, et cetera, et cetera.

Tiffany L. Cabán

So thank you for fleshing that out.

Tiffany L. Cabán

I appreciate it.