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Morano Q&A with Passaro: what could prevent the next veteran suicide

New York City Council · Sep 18, 2026 · starts 2:15:00 · 2 min 31 sec

Morano asks Passaro what the city could have done to prevent Adam's suicide. Passaro says Adam was already receiving therapy and had successfully transitioned to Homeland Security. He emphasizes the importance of supporting programs like those Dr. Nelson provides and the Dwyer program.

Frank Morano

Well, thank you, and thank you for sharing your experience and Adam's story.

Frank Morano

How old was Adam when he passed away?

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

He was 38.

Frank Morano

I really, obviously, you know, I wouldn't trade places with you for anything.

Frank Morano

And I can imagine.

Frank Morano

The anguish that you've been through since your son's passing.

Frank Morano

And I think that's exactly the intent of putting forward a resolution, recognizing White Star families, is so other people feel some comfort in sharing their stories and

Frank Morano

connecting with other similarly situated families.

Frank Morano

It might be an impossible question for you to answer, but something tells me you've thought about this a lot.

Frank Morano

What do you think, if anything, because ultimately when we talk about data, when we talk about outreach, when we talk about funding, when we talk about numbers,

Frank Morano

really it all comes down to preventing incidents like what happened to your son from happening.

Frank Morano

What do you think the city of New York could do, if it's one thing, if it's a thousand things, that would have gotten your son the care that he needed in order to avoid him taking his own life?

Frank Morano

What could we do to prevent the next Adam?

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

Well, I have to say this.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

I mean, he was going for therapy right from the get-go.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

And when he had to leave the army, they didn't just say, see ya.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

You know, they felt that he had enough in his bank there that he should be still serving in a different capacity.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

And that capacity was Homeland Security, which he excelled tremendously.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

You know, and...

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

But just keep doing what you're doing.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

You know, like, this is a miracle woman here.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

I mean, she lost her husband and had to bring up a child alone and didn't get bitter.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

She just kept going and going to help others.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

So it's just supporting, you know, this.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

It's got to support this.

Member of the Public - Anthony Passaro

That's what I would say, you know.

Frank Morano

Well, we think you're both pretty inspirational.

Frank Morano

So thank you, sir.

Frank Morano

Sorry for both of you and the loss that you've experienced.

Frank Morano

Thank you for sharing it with this committee.

Frank Morano

Hopefully sharing it will help other families in the future.