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Public Testimony

Nelson testimony: accountability for organizations serving military families

New York City Council · Sep 18, 2026 · starts 1:56:30 · 1 min 48 sec

Nelson describes experiencing disrespect within an organization serving military families, including poor treatment of Gold Star, White Star, and Silver Star families and their children. She calls for stronger oversight, confidential complaint procedures, independent evaluation, and trauma-informed staff training for organizations receiving city funding.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

This is something that's real deep because we all experience it as a military connected community.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

We also need to hold, and you guys spoke a little bit about this.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

We also need to hold accountability in the organizations that serve us.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I have personally experienced disrespect within an organization.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

With other Gold Star families, White Star, Silver Star families, even the children, with how they're being treated.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I chose to leave.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I actually had a personal experience on 9-11 two years ago, but it just doesn't stop there.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

There's so many of us that go through it, even in the military community that's working with us as military to help us with our paperwork, our benefits, our children's scholarships.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I went through that whole process, and I just helped a family member with their grandchild because they thought their grandchild wasn't going to go to college because of the service they was receiving.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Horrible service.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Veterans and military families deserve fair,

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

understanding that they should be a protected demographics, meaning that dignity should never depend on someone's personal preference.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I ask that council to strengthen oversight within its authority and encourage coordination.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

with state and federal partners.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

That would include meaningful feedback from people, receiving services, accessible complaint procedures, independent evaluation and staff training, and respect trauma-informed communication.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

No family should have to fight.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

To be treated with dignity by an organization established to support them.