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Public Testimony

Nelson testimony: inclusive language and gaps in family recognition

New York City Council · Sep 18, 2026 · starts 1:58:18 · 2 min 26 sec

Nelson praises more inclusive language in event announcements and publications that now reference military families alongside veterans. She raises the case of a fiancée of a killed service member who receives different benefits than surviving spouses, asking where non-traditional family members fit in housing assistance programs.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

This is recognition more for military-connected families.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I want to acknowledge that I am seeing meaningful changes in the language used in event announcements, articles, and public writings.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I appreciate that more organizations are referring not only to veterans,

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

but also to families, military families and military connected families.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

If anybody know me, this is all I speak about.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

This inclusive language matters.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

When a communication says only veterans, it can unintentionally leave out military-connected families, including families whose veteran

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

loved one died from a health issue, a health condition, and families who did not personally serve.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Naming military-connected families, opening the doors for more people to step into these spaces, be recognized, and receive support.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Now, I recently saw a public item identifying Gold Star families in connection with housing with the veterans also in a whole article, which was beautiful.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Now, it speaks about housing assistance schedule to launch on October 1st.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

FYI, October 1st is the 20th year anniversary.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

My late husband, Sergeant Mario, was killed in combat.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

So I am hitting 20 years.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Now, my question is around this.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

For those that are not considered Gold Star families,

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

For those that...

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I met a young lady that is, she was a fiance.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Her fiance was killed riding his motorcycle.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

She will not receive the same benefits that I received.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

She received something totally different.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Now, does that include that particular demographics of a family?

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Because you can't call a surviving spouse.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

So where does that include her?

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

And she has four children.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I want to affirm that these efforts are being heard and are making a difference.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

I also have additional matters to raise in a future meeting.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Now.

Member of the Public - Mecca Nelson

Honoring Adam.